Pet Bereavement

I’ve recently moved from Kansas to the majestic mountains of North Carolina with three small dogs, two of which were seniors and near the end of life. I worried that they would not want to leave the home they’d lived in since they were puppies or be able to make the long drive. As I told them about the move (yes, I talk to my dogs and they seem to understand) their excitement was evident. A message was delivered to me that “they wanted to see that I got to my new home safely, bless it, help me get settled, and then they would transition.”

They were angels as I got rid of many of our belongings and packed the rest to be moved half way across the country. They were amazing as we made the sixteen hour drive that took twenty two hours with all our stops. I had no idea of the comfort they would bring me as I unpacked and turned our new place into a home. 

About a month after our arrival I began to feel settled in. Then Puggie’s seizure and nerve attacks increased in intensity and duration. Molly’s health was also failing with the experience of chronic pain and digestive issues. I was going through the agonizing decision of putting Puggie down when I received the message from my spirit guides that “Molly was also ready and that they were to go together”. I could feel the truth of this to my core as my heart got light and felt golden, which was a most obvious sign. 

A few days later, they got their wings together and were off to doggy heaven, a new beginning without the pain and weight of their failing bodies. They were both over fifteen years old and had lived wonderful and full lives. The two of them were deaf and Puggie was also nearly blind. I admired Puggie’s ability to mindfully navigate around the house and the yard despite his lack of vision, relying on his sense of smell and feeling. 

I reflected on how our children grow up, begin their own lives and families. Our pets are our forever children from the day we bring them home to their last breath… from babies to seniors (if we are lucky). They trust us implicitly to take care of all their needs, from food and water, getting them out to potty, healthcare, love and companionship, and more. What could possibly be more sacred than that? They love us unconditionally in the most beautiful way. It was such an honor to care for my adorable fur babies.

My precious pups wanted to escort me to my new home and in turn I helped them to return back home. I felt their love as they ascended, as if they were saying “thank you for setting us free.”

Not only did my beloved companions take care of me in ways I could not have expected, but they inspired me to expand my services. In the most auspicious way, their passing led to a special connection between myself and the loving people that assisted in their last days, who suggested I serve as a resource to their clients who need bereavement services following the loss of their pets. 

The next chapter begins, living in a mountain town that is so pet friendly that people take their dogs to restaurants and public places. I am now that dog mom who is joining in and enjoying it with my pup who remains. He’s loving the adventures and play dates in his new community. He’s got a dog stroller for when he’s done with his walk and wants to enjoy the ride and view as I continue with my powerwalk.

Thank you, Molly and Puggie, for your love and unending sacred service. I truly appreciate 4 Paws Farewell for this new relationship, idea and inspiration to take this next step.